Every woman’s guide to weight loss.
Every woman – no matter how skinny or rational she may be – will have this thought at least once in her life: “I need to lose weight.”
A healthy diet, combined with regular exercise and a positive attitude, is guaranteed to help you lose weight. Weight loss companies, slimming centres and diet food manufacturers recognise this female weakness and very often, we fall for their tactics! While some of these products and services may work, there is no guarantee of their safety or long-term efficacy.
However, there is a guarantee with one method of weight loss: a healthy diet, combined with regular exercise and a positive attitude. There is scientific evidence to back this up, as well as personal testimonies from people who have succeeded in losing weight with these healthy methods.
It won’t be easy, and it won’t be quick. But it will be worth it.
First: Make a commitment
Just like with any other goal that you want to achieve, weight loss is something that you have to commit yourself towards wholeheartedly. Firstly, think about why you want to lose weight. It should be for yourself and your own benefit, not for someone else.
Don’t lose weight just because your boyfriend or husband says you should; lose weight because you want to feel good about yourself.
Then ask yourself whether you are ready to make permanent changes to your lifestyle. This may require some drastic changes to your eating routine, daily activities and other habits that you have become accustomed to – and not just for a week or a month, but for the rest of your life. Don’t force yourself if there are other factors in your life that pose challenges at this point, such as marital, financial or work problems.
If you are confident with these two questions, then you are committed to your goal.
Second: Get emotional support
Yes, I mentioned earlier that you should not bow to external pressure to lose weight. But you do need external support to help you achieve your goals.
Support can come from your partner, family, friends and colleagues. They must understand why you are doing this and have your best interests at heart. They can offer support by eating healthily and exercising with you, listening to your concerns, and not forcing you to do things that you don’t want to.
If they ridicule you or show little confidence in you, explain to them that their beha-viour only hinders you from your objective.
Third: Set a realistic goal
Want to lose 20kg in two weeks? That’s just not possible, and you should not try to aim for that. Be realistic in your expectations, or else you will just disappoint yourself.
A reasonable rate of weight loss is 500g to 1kg a week, which you can achieve by burning between 500 and 1,000 calories every day. You don’t have to starve yourself to burn these calories – combine a lower calorie intake with exercise every day.
Also, it will help to set small “process goals” rather than daunting “outcome goals”. For example, a goal like “exercising for 15 minutes a day” is easier to achieve than “lose 20 kg”. Then you can increase your goals gradually, for example, going up to 30 minutes of exercise a day.
Four: Eat healthily and enjoy it
Why does healthy eating have to mean bland, boring meals? If you want to lose weight healthily and keep it off, then you have to adopt eating habits that still allow you to enjoy the pleasure of food, or else you will not be motivated to continue eating healthily.
The recommended calorie intake for Malaysian women is 2,000kcal per day, and for men is 2,500kcal per day. As I mentioned earlier, you should aim to reduce your daily calorie intake by 500-1,000kcal per day. Do not go down to a very-low-calorie diet, as this could be dangerous for you.
The no. 1 rule to reducing calories is to reduce your fat intake. Cut down on fried and oily foods, and trim off the skin and fat in your meats. Eating more plant-based foods – fruits, vegetables and wholegrains – will also help you lower calorie intake.
Eat a variety of foods so that you do not get bored. Varying your cooking styles will also make meals interesting from day to day.
The best advice I can give is to get advice from a professional! This means consulting your family physician or asking him to refer you to a dietician.
Every woman – no matter how skinny or rational she may be – will have this thought at least once in her life: “I need to lose weight.”
A healthy diet, combined with regular exercise and a positive attitude, is guaranteed to help you lose weight. Weight loss companies, slimming centres and diet food manufacturers recognise this female weakness and very often, we fall for their tactics! While some of these products and services may work, there is no guarantee of their safety or long-term efficacy.
However, there is a guarantee with one method of weight loss: a healthy diet, combined with regular exercise and a positive attitude. There is scientific evidence to back this up, as well as personal testimonies from people who have succeeded in losing weight with these healthy methods.
It won’t be easy, and it won’t be quick. But it will be worth it.
First: Make a commitment
Just like with any other goal that you want to achieve, weight loss is something that you have to commit yourself towards wholeheartedly. Firstly, think about why you want to lose weight. It should be for yourself and your own benefit, not for someone else.
Don’t lose weight just because your boyfriend or husband says you should; lose weight because you want to feel good about yourself.
Then ask yourself whether you are ready to make permanent changes to your lifestyle. This may require some drastic changes to your eating routine, daily activities and other habits that you have become accustomed to – and not just for a week or a month, but for the rest of your life. Don’t force yourself if there are other factors in your life that pose challenges at this point, such as marital, financial or work problems.
If you are confident with these two questions, then you are committed to your goal.
Second: Get emotional support
Yes, I mentioned earlier that you should not bow to external pressure to lose weight. But you do need external support to help you achieve your goals.
Support can come from your partner, family, friends and colleagues. They must understand why you are doing this and have your best interests at heart. They can offer support by eating healthily and exercising with you, listening to your concerns, and not forcing you to do things that you don’t want to.
If they ridicule you or show little confidence in you, explain to them that their beha-viour only hinders you from your objective.
Third: Set a realistic goal
Want to lose 20kg in two weeks? That’s just not possible, and you should not try to aim for that. Be realistic in your expectations, or else you will just disappoint yourself.
A reasonable rate of weight loss is 500g to 1kg a week, which you can achieve by burning between 500 and 1,000 calories every day. You don’t have to starve yourself to burn these calories – combine a lower calorie intake with exercise every day.
Also, it will help to set small “process goals” rather than daunting “outcome goals”. For example, a goal like “exercising for 15 minutes a day” is easier to achieve than “lose 20 kg”. Then you can increase your goals gradually, for example, going up to 30 minutes of exercise a day.
Four: Eat healthily and enjoy it
Why does healthy eating have to mean bland, boring meals? If you want to lose weight healthily and keep it off, then you have to adopt eating habits that still allow you to enjoy the pleasure of food, or else you will not be motivated to continue eating healthily.
The recommended calorie intake for Malaysian women is 2,000kcal per day, and for men is 2,500kcal per day. As I mentioned earlier, you should aim to reduce your daily calorie intake by 500-1,000kcal per day. Do not go down to a very-low-calorie diet, as this could be dangerous for you.
The no. 1 rule to reducing calories is to reduce your fat intake. Cut down on fried and oily foods, and trim off the skin and fat in your meats. Eating more plant-based foods – fruits, vegetables and wholegrains – will also help you lower calorie intake.
Eat a variety of foods so that you do not get bored. Varying your cooking styles will also make meals interesting from day to day.
The best advice I can give is to get advice from a professional! This means consulting your family physician or asking him to refer you to a dietician.
